So much had happened in the virtual world this past weeks!
A wife calling out her husband's side chic! Who wears the shoe...
A Granddaughter saw her grandmother making love! Double standard!
A wife assassinated her husband! Insanity!
Aigbe went back to Gentry! AHAHAHAHAAAAAAA.
The lady faking Dv and calling the cops! SERIOUSLY??
The common denominator in all these is WOMAN! WOMAN! WOMAN!
Sometimes, I ask myself, what is our problem???
What do we really want???
Love? Money? S*x? faithfulness? Respect?
Are our men the problem or is it us?
Or is it the curse Eve brought unto us.. our desire will be to please our men always?
I mean WHAT IS REALLY THE PROBLEM???
You see, it amuses me when we cuss out each other, if not fat vs slim, it will be working wife vs housewife, or natural hair vs relaxed hair,or natural birth vs CS, beautiful vs ugly, or having class vs not having class! And we expect to be taken serious by men? We are NOT better than the men we castigate, yet we fast and pray for husbands! I don't support other women blindly, simply because we have the same anatomy! Women can be very deceitful, hypocritical and evasive to achieve their goal ... many men are paying the price! Hell has no fury as a woman when scorned! We are more outspoken than men, that is why, we think they don't suffer emotionally and physically ... their ego prevents them.
The irony is that women gave birth to men! Just like the potter and it's clay, we mould them to become who and what they are! That is why, I don't agree with the proverbs 31 virtuous woman thing! That queen-mother was setting too high a standard for her future queen-daughter-in-law for her king-son! None for her future son-in-law for her daughter? The scripture says; Wives submit ... Husbands love .... when a wife is submissive, she is turned to a doormat ... when a husband loves , he is turned to mumu because the human nature is corrupt! The middle ground here is RESPECT!
SO! Back to the question, what do we want as women?
Financial security, to be able to meet the family NEEDS not necessarily luxuries.
Respect, I did not say love, because, it has been confused with lust!
And faithfulness, we don't like sharing!
I did not say s*x because every woman's libido differs. Regardless of that, a woman will choose comfort-ability over sex! There are adult toys to help her out.
Thanks for reading.