Monday, June 02, 2014


Angel sent me a link to a post she did, asking about me. I came across a comment which made me to remember another comment I read in 9jamum's post as well,
 hence, it occurred to me that, I have to clear the air; That much I owe my readers.

Yes! I bowed out the first time after a disagreement in blogsville, because, I knew when to draw the line. But hubby who is my biggest fan was not happy about it and pleaded with me to make a come-back. Since, we were already preparing for our relocation, I told him, I would start an anonymous blog talking about my new lease of life in another country. Infact, I was already coining a new name sef. He said, his friends would not know it is me and they enjoy reading my write-ups. 

Thus, I had to swallow my pride, all in the name of love and made a comeback. He made me promised that I would avoid controversy. HMMM .... my guys, I tried to avoid trouble, sincerely speaking o, but  the playful- naughty me, sometimes surfaces *winks* and I got into a fight in an entertainment blog. Hubby was not happy with me! Since, I know, one of my weakness is explosive anger and not implosive anger, {Explosive anger is the type that is expressed immediately, served while hot! While implosive anger is the concealing type ,that hides all emotions #wise moves#} I decided to reduce my blog trips and comments to learn on how to have an implosive type of anger instead. Therefore, I went private! Some suggested moderation of comments, the truth is,  am too blog-lazy to be reading and publishing comments :D

Alas! I became pregger after going private! My hormones went skyrocketing as usual! My loved ones were walking on egg shells during that period, because they simply didn't know what could trigger me off! And I didn't want to bring such attitude into my blog, so I had to make a decision.  It was hubby that benefited most from my hormonal upsurge because it made me Caro @ nite x2! *batting my eyelashes*. I have complained before how my lappy was mis-behaving in the older post, but I was managing it because the new laptop I wanted was not on our scale of priority yet.  I strongly believe in spirituality, this much I said in GNG pregnancy post, so, I decided to concentrate on my well-being for safe delivery. And I thank GOD for answering all my prayers. It was one day, the idea came to me;' Why don't I announce my good news with a new blog instead of an old blog filled with controversy?'  Yes! That is how superstitious I am o! So I deleted everything that has to do with my old blog, and hubby this time around accepted. 

Thank you all for your understanding.